How to Find the Best Lawyer for You

Not just any lawyer, the best lawyer.  It is certainly understandable that someone who suddenly needs a lawyer to end a marriage would want to find the best one around. It's not only part of our competitive nature, but it's also common sense.

When trying to find the best lawyer for you, wherever you are, here are some things to consider.

1. You need to define what makes a lawyer the best one for you. What are the most important qualities that you are looking for? Do you want a business-like personality or someone who is very personable and casual? Do you want a very structured attorney or a more laid back approach? Some lawyers are abrasive and others are instantly your best friend. You should get to know something about a lawyer’s personality and approach to practicing law.

2. Another stylistic option is whether you want a decision-maker or an option-developer. Some lawyers get the facts of the case and then start telling clients what to do. Other lawyers help clients develop a variety of options and then assist them in choosing a course of action. Some clients just want to turn over their legal matter to their attorney and let the attorney take care of it. How involved do you want to be?

3. What is the financial range of fees you are comfortable with? Generally, the more experience or more demand there is for a lawyer, the higher the fees will be. More expensive lawyers aren't always the best, but they often are much better than inexpensive lawyers. If your case is very complicated or unusual, you may want to hire an experienced attorney, but make sure you can afford the attorney. Even among very good attorneys, there will be a range of fees that they charge.

4. Do you want or need a trial lawyer or a settlement specialist? Don't assume that you necessarily want to take your case to trial. Likewise, you shouldn't assume that your case will be settled. It is true that most family law cases settle, but some have to be tried. You should consider both approaches and find out how prospective lawyers view your case.

5. Sometimes, location can be a consideration. You generally want to hire a lawyer in your own county, or wherever the suit is located. But, you may or may not have to go to your attorney's office very often after the attorney is hired. Much of the contact between lawyers and clients takes place via email or by phone or fax. However, you probably should hire someone local who is familiar with the local courts, judges and courthouse personnel.

Hat tip to Dick Price for his April 15, 2011 post

Dallas Kids Expo Features O'Neil's book All About Texas Law and Kids

Dallas Family Law attorney Michelle May O'Neil previewed her book All About Texas Law and Kids with her co-authors Bobbi Sheahan and Sharon Ramage at the Dallas Kids Expo on Saturday.  The audience submitted general questions which were answered by the authors based on the book. O'Neil provided copies of the book to give away to the first three audience members who asked questions.  Plano Children's Theater generously donated season tickets to give away for questioners.  O'Neil answered general questions about the law and children on topics such as child custody, child support, guardianship, grandparent rights, and age for marriage.  A portion of the Q&A is posted on youtube video and embedded below:

 

Happy birthday to the Texas Lawyer's Creed!

The Texas Lawyer's Creed turned 20 years old on November 5, 2009 marking a milestone in the Texas Bar community for the promotion of professionalism and civility in the legal profession.  Being an attorney in the great state of Texas (any any other state for that matter) is a privilege.  With this privilege comes a great amount of responsibility.  Unfortunately there are some bad attorneys out there who have tarnished the image of the legal profession.  The lawyer's creed sets forth a model of behavior which, if followed, helps to improve the public image of the legal profession and bolsters good will among members of the bar.

One of the most important components of the lawyer's creed addresses the lawyer's relationship to his/her client.  The legal profession is a service industry, and there certainly isn't a lack of capable attorneys to handle cases.  Being capable, however, is only part of the equation for success.  Following the lawyer's creed is also a large part of the equation in obtaining a favorable result for a client. 

So happy birthday to the lawyer's creed and here's to another 20 years of helping us lawyers strive for excellence!