Am I Even Married? (Common Law Marriage)

     An Excerpt from the book, "Basis of Texas Divorce Law" co-authored by Michelle May O'Neil and Ashley Bowline Russell

Posted by Michelle May O'Neil on April 18, 2011

     A common law marriage is when a man and woman agree to be married and live together in Texas as husband and wife while representing to others that they are married.  Contrary to popular belief, there are no time requirements for establishing a common law marriage.  Provided there's an agreement to be married that the couple tells other people about, a couple could live together for one day, to establish a common law marriage.

     There are two ways to dissolve a common law marriage. The first is through traditional legal divorce procedures.  The second option is to separate and wait.  According to Texas Family Code, if no lawsuit to determine marital status is filed within two years after the separation of common law spouses, the law presumes there was no agreement to be married.

     Practically speaking, if there are children resulting from a common law marriage, it is better to pursue a traditional divorce.  This is also true if the two spouses obtained substantial amounts of property during the term of the marriage, as a divorce is an easier way to divide the property than through a traditional suit for partition between non-spouses. 

I made a huge mistake, can I get an annulment?

A resident of Dallas county came and asked me for some advice on whether a divorce or annulment was his best option to proceed with.  As a Dallas divorce lawyer, I get a lot of questions on annulments versus divorces and I think its worth the time to post a blog on the differences between the two and under what circumstances an annulment is available.

A suit for annulment, as opposed to a suit divorce, is brought when there has been some legal impediment to the creation of a valid marriage; that is, the suit is for premarital causes rather than conduct that occurred during the marriage (as in a divorce).  Annulments have declined in popularity because in 1970 the Texas Legislature adopted no-fault grounds for divorce which made getting a divorce far easier.

There are four general grounds under which an annulment is possible. 

1.  A court can annul a marriage if a party to the marriage was at least 16 years of age, but under 18 years of age, at the time of marriage and did not have parental consent or court-ordered permission to marry.  Note, however, that an annulment under this ground is discretionary and the court must consider facts relevant to the welfare of the parties to the marriage (for example, whether the wife is pregnant).

2.  A court can also annul a marriage if at the time of the marriage the person seeking annulment was under the influence of drugs and/or alcohol and as a result lacked the capacity to consent to the marriage.  Also, the person seeking annulment cannot have voluntarily continued to live with the other party since the effects of the drugs/alcohol ended.  Note that we're not talking about a simple case of having a few drinks and then getting hitched.  Texas courts have held that the degree of intoxication must be so great as to have "dethroned reason, memory and judgment". 

3.  Another ground for annulment is impotency.  A court can annul a marriage if either party was permanently impotent at the time of marriage and the person seeking annulment did not know of the impotency at the time of marriage.  Also, the person seeking annulment cannot have continued to voluntarily live with the other person once they learned of the impotency.

4.  Fraud, duress and force are additional grounds for annulment.  A court can annul a marriage if one party was used fraud, duress or force to induce the person seeking annulment into marriage.  Just like the other grounds for annulment, the person seeking annulment cannot have voluntarily continued to live with the other party since learning of the fraud or being freed from the duress or force.

These are the grounds most people think of when considering an annulment.  Once an annulment is granted, the marriage will be considered void and its treated as if it never happened.  If an annulment is not granted, then the marriage will be considered valid indefinitely.